If you've decided to try internet dating after your divorce, the best place to begin is by writing your online dating profile.There is actually an art to writing a good profile that generates the right kind of click.It's similar to how a good resume gets you noticed so you get an interview.

Enjoy] I read so many online dating profiles that I get dizzy. A woman wants a strong and independent man so she incorrectly believes that a man wants a strong and independent woman. Men want a feminine women but one who is resilient and self-reliant. As men are rational and logical creatures regarding dating, a woman should specifically state what she offers in terms of what a man actually wants.

The vast majority of women’s online dating profiles are completely and utterly generic: Walks on the beach, shopping, I’m fabulous, I love my dog, no games, family and friends are important. Such generic text does not speak well of a woman’s sense of honest introspection. Bad photos tell men that the woman really isn’t making much of an effort. A list is not the stuff of romance unicorns and rainbows. Logic and reason are masculine qualities and a woman must communicate to such an audience with her profile. If a woman wants to use this example, she best do a serious inventory of what she offers a man.

Here’s another huge mistake that a woman makes – she describes herself in terms of what she wants in a man.

This kind of list should lead the profile to show what the woman offers in the context of dating and relationships.

As for the rest of the profile, that advice will come later.

Let’s just say it isn’t a list of demands but a more creative way of expressing a woman’s preferences in a man.

Final Note – Consider the services of a professional dating coach.

With this in mind, a good online dating profile must clearly spell out what a woman offers to her potential paramour and candidate for a committed relationship.

In the long run, men hold the relationship power (most of them just don’t know it).